Lingerie Buying Guide (written for men, but can be used by women)
So you plan to buy lingerie for the woman (or man) of your life. A well-chosen lingerie gift is one of the most romantic things you can do. It's an intimate gift that can make the lady feel sexy and loved. Buy the right lingerie gift and you will be invited to unpack it later. Choose the wrong lingerie and you will almost certainly live to regret it. This guide will show you how to choose the right lingerie gift (the kind of gift that keeps on giving).
First, if you do not know the bustier of a nightie, see the lingerie glossary at http://www.lingeriediva.com/lingerie_glossary_s/12.htm.
1. Lingerie is not for you
Yes, I know you think it's for you. But if she does not wear it, it's a gift that none of you will appreciate. So you have to choose something she will like. How do you know what she will like? Just follow steps 2 and 3 below.
2. What is the occasion? Or no opportunity at all!
Do you buy her lingerie for a special occasion - birthday, Christmas, Valentine's Day, birthday? A silky dress or sexy dress will make great birthday gifts or Christmas. For Valentine's Day or your birthday, try a nightie, camisole, shirt or teddy bear.
Maybe you buy lingerie to spice things up. Try to give him lingerie for no reason and see the reaction! Depending on its layout, you may want to try something in leather or vinyl. You can also play with a sexy costume or a corset.
Before you buy, you must also think about how and where lingerie will be worn? Is it an article that will mainly be worn in the bedroom, only for your eyes? Will she wear it under her everyday clothes? She may be willing to wear something uncomfortable for a few minutes in the bedroom, but she will not want to wear it all day.
Do not forget that sexy clothes are a perfect complement to lingerie. They can be worn at a club or for a night in the city.
3. Lingerie recognition mission
It's something that most men can handle - a reconnaissance mission. Feel free to wear trellises if that helps you. You will recognize his underwear and closet. What are you looking for? In this mission, you look for three elements of intelligence: size, style and color.
Part A - Size
First, you must know its sizes. So, start by finding her bras. Look at the label. This probably indicates something like 34B or 36C. Just for you to know, the digital part is the size in inches around his chest, just below the breasts. The letter portion represents the size of the cup (the size of the breasts - the A's are smaller than the D's).
Then try to find a slip, a nightgown or part of his current lingerie. Note the size - usually small, medium, large, wide x-tra, etc. Check a few different items and choose the size that appears most often.
Part B - Style
Now, look through her lingerie and her current clothes. What styles does it prefer? If all her panties are panties, she may not wear a string (on the other hand, she may be waiting for an excuse). If she has never worn leather or vinyl, you may need to introduce this type of item gradually. You can start with just a pair of panties or a bra. These are not too extreme and are inexpensive.
Part C - Color
Finally, note the color of her underwear, bras and lingerie. Who cares about the color you ask? Well, she probably does it. Some colors are better. In addition, if you plan to buy him something to wear under his everyday clothes, some colors (such as red or black) may appear through a transparent blouse. That said, keep in mind that most women will not buy hot red lingerie, it's your job!
4. How much to spend?
Remember, cheap lingerie will make it feel cheap. The good news is that high quality lingerie does not have to be expensive. Basic camisole and panties usually sell for less than $ 20. Whatever your budget, you can find something she will like.
5. Time to choose
Okay, you have gathered your information and are ready to make a decision. You can go to the mall and go to one of the big lingerie retailers. Or, even better, buy online.
