He Wants to See You in Your Bikini Because it’s Step One in a Relationship

Men are physically attracted to women because of their bodies, but the confidence that accompanies that body is what sticks. When choosing a life partner, physical attraction is not the defining factor. Personality, values, priorities, background, and one’s self-confidence all play a role when seeking a partner to do life with. So a man will glance or take a peek at you in your bikini, but the motivations behind that glance may vary. I assumed their interest was purely because of the physical attraction to my body, but I realized otherwise after having my daughter. But while my body increased in size, my confidence shrunk. After rebuilding my confidence and finding comfort in my new body, I went back to my self-assured walks on the beach in my swimsuit. Having Confidence is Attractive It took over a year after having my daughter to rebuild my confidence. Negotiating the Factors of a Relationship